5 Ways To Help Your Family From Beyond The Grave 2023

As an insurance agent I have come across a wide variety of opinions when it comes to people discussing their own deaths. I am constantly amazed at how people will open up with me so quickly. Maybe they trust an insurance agent more than their own family members.

Some of these folks believe they are heading into the afterlife, one way or another, while more than you would expect seem to feel that there is nothing after you die. But with all of these differing opinions, most do agree that their loved ones will still be around when they are gone and may have to pay some expensive bills as a result of their death.  

And here is the rub. If we agree that there will be some costs involved when we go to our great reward, shouldn't we try to minimize those costs ahead of time? Wouldn't it be in the best interest of our surviving family members? It seems like common sense to say "yes". Especially when we know that no one lives forever.

So what can you do to make sure your family doesn't go broke paying their last respects to you? Here are a few ideas of simple tasks that don't need to be put off any longer.

1. Have a will. Your will directs the courts to help settle your estate per your wishes. It's very important to keep it updated every few years as your situation changes. And most importantly, make sure your family members know where to find it. Is your will in a safe, or a file at your attorney's office? And never leave it in a safe deposit box unless other family members have a key. 
2. Have a living will. If you were seriously ill, would you want to be on life support or would you rather have the medical staff "pull the plug"? Your directives can keep your family from keeping you on life support when you would rather pass away.
3. Have a life insurance policy. As an attorney friend of mine always says, "A life insurance policy trumps a will." You don't have to wait for someone's estate to be settled because a life insurance policy is a binding contract between you and your insurance company. Remember that when someone dies, the funeral home, lawyer and others will have their hand out waiting to be paid. Your life insurance agent will be the one bringing you a check to pay those bills. 
4. Pre-plan your funeral. Instead of your kids picking out a Cadillac coffin, you can decide for yourself how modest you want your funeral to be. 
5. Pre-pay your funeral. My own father did pre-plan but didn't pre-pay. From the time he had planned his funeral to the time he actually passed away, inflation had done some damage. The funeral director shook his head and said, "I'll do the best I can on these prices", and I could tell it wasn't the first time he had run into this situation. 

This list may seem daunting, but it doesn't have to be. The first two items and the last two items can be taken care of at the same time. Having a plan and letting your family know what it is can save them substantial money and they will know that, even in death, you are looking out for their best interest.  

Chris Castanes is the president of Surf Financial Brokers, helping people find affordable life, disability, long term care, cancer, accident and other insurance coverages in North Carolina, South Carolina, Virginia, Tennessee and Georgia. He's also is a professional speaker helping sales people be more productive and efficient, and has spoken to professional and civic organizations throughout the Southeast. And please subscribe to this blog!

Do Younger People Need Life Insurance? 2023

If you are a millennial or GenX'er you may wonder what kind of life insurance you should purchase. There are a few different types of coverage available. Term, universal, indexed universal and whole life. Term policies could be considered "temporary" as they only cover you during a specific amount of time, like 10, 20 or 30 years. There are even some companies out there offering 40 and 45-year terms for younger people. Term policies are much less expensive because they only offer a death benefit and there are no other features like loans or cash value. (Some term policies now offer "living benefits" which can help you if chronic or critical illnesses arise.)

Although term life insurance does not accrue cash value, it's affordable for working families during their working years. For instance, a healthy non-smoker in their mid-20's could expect to pay less than $25 each month for $500,000. (Rates are subject to underwriting and are not guaranteed)

On the other hand there are permanent policies, like universal life (UL), indexed universal life (IUL) and whole life (WL).  These policies are more expensive but they also cover for the rest of your life as long as you continue to pay the premiums.

Permanent policies also have various ways to build cash value internally. For example, the UL uses interest rates, but since rates are at historic lows (for now), it's not a great option. We have many younger clients who use IUL's in lieu of investing and are very happy. 

For those who are single with no dependents but own a home, a policy will allow you to keep that home in the family. Having parents or nieces or nephews who could use that home if you should pass can be beneficial and life insurance can pay off the balance of the mortgage. 

So how can you get a policy? You can usually get a policy through work if they offer one, however we always recommend you have additional coverage outside of work, in case you leave your job. Also, that coverage through work is rarely enough to cover all of your debt and replace lost income. If you have a family, you will definitely need much more.

A great way is to use a quoting tool (we have one on our website) which lets you enter your information and will give you several choices of coverages. If you like what you see, you can even begin the application.

A simple method to find out how much life insurance you need is to add up your expenses and liabilities, like the mortgage, car payments and other debts. That should be a minimum for your needs. You may also want to consider lost income if you are the sole breadwinner of the home, and future education costs if you have children. On our website, our life insurance quoting tool offers a calculator to help determine your needs.

You may or may not be required to have an exam. It really depends on several factors, like the carrier and the amount you are applying for. Many companies have decreased their usage of exams during the pandemic, but they still reserve the right to have your medical records transmitted to them. And if there is no exam, you could have to answer a lot of medical questions during the application process. The secret here is to be as truthful and honest as possible, especially when it comes to questions about smoking (tobacco or cannabis) and your family's medical history.

If you have questions about what type of insurance you need or how to apply, let us know. In the meantime, please stay healthy!

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Chris Castanes is the president of Surf Financial Brokers, helping people find affordable life, disability, long term care, cancer, accident and other insurance coverages in North Carolina, South Carolina, Virginia, Tennessee and Georgia. He's also is a professional speaker helping sales people be more productive and efficient, and has spoken to professional and civic organizations throughout the Southeast. And please subscribe to this blog!